TIME is my BEST BUD :)

wheew.. finally..

falling in love is like an ecstacy. on the other side of it, breaking up is really, really, REALLY an agony.

…Nobody said it was easy, (sabi nga ng coldplay) but life has to go on. (accdg to joe d mango hehehe:)] Moving on is really a hard thing to do! everyday is like waking up each day with misery. well, no one relishes nursing a broken heart back to health, to its normal state, but it’s something everyone who’s ever loved will have to do at some point. and you really have to do it. give yourself a favor. :)

just want to share few tips on how to mend a broken heart (haha aaww ayos ba?) mahirap talaga but you have to do it!!

The best way to spell LOVE is TIME. yes. TIME!! you need time. your self needs time. time to think, to reminisce, to look back,. time to entertain the painful reality that you’re no longer together, that everything has changed. uhmm… its like reality check

First of all, acknowledge that what you are going through is hard. When you’re in love, your body develops a chemical addiction to the other person, and the withdrawal is both painful and necessary. agree? hehe just give yourself permission to grieve. told you, it will really help. however, you must set a time frame. there’s a rainbow after a storm Make a serious effort to involve yourself in projects and activities, and immerse yourself in other people!! friends are so important. you need to have an outlet. Talk to your friends about the breakup, but talk to them about other things, too. Even if you don’t want to, forcing yourself to get out and concentrate on other things will get you on the right track to feeling like yourself again.

Learn to let go. you will never get over them if you let yourself daydream about getting back together. Delete them from your cell phone, and don’t even think about clicking on their account profile. It’s a good idea to get rid of everything that reminds you of them to help yourself realize that that phase in your life is over. Depending on the length and closeness of the relationship, some people find that moving helps them make a clean break and a new start. If that isn’t an option, rearrange the furniture, redecorate your walls - anything you can do to symbolize moving on will help you make the transition. It’s time to start a new era, with new memories and new possibilities.

Get it out!!! relationships leave trails of unresolved issues, questions and feelings their wake… unfinished business! But it isn’t always possible to talk to achieve closure with the other person, it’s important that you express what you think and feel - working through those questions is a big part of leaving them behind. Put them on paper. It doesn’t matter if it’s in a journal or a letter, but sometimes addressing your thoughts to your ex can help you achieve more cathartic value. After you’ve spent all of your anger, confusion or guilt, look at what you’ve written. If after you’ve exhausted your pen or keyboard you still feel like it’s something you still really need them to know, consider sending it. First, edit any accusations or sections that are too emotionally charged - you don’t want to send anything you’ll regret later - and make sure it reads as an honest letter that isn’t asking for a response. Once you’ve sent your thoughts, frustrations and explanations, you can feel certain that you’ve said what you needed to say and move on.friendship can wait afterall. it takes time. no calls. no sightings. no friendship for some time. you need at least three months or four with absolutely no contact before you can even think about starting a friendship, and it often takes much longer.

There’s no such thing as “staying friends.” You were not friends when you were dating, and if you were friends before, it ended the moment you became intimately involved. If you want to start a friendship now, realize that it will be an entirely new relationship that must be built from the ground up. You’ll share a different kind of bond, have different kinds of conversations and play different roles in each other’s lives. It may be true that once we love someone, we love them forever, but it cannot be in the same way if you hope to have an honest friendship and an honest chance at moving on.

Love your self. :)

I thought i couldnt make it. ”naisip ko pa magmonggha na lang haha!!! oh yes,,,, it would be a lot harder but you can do it! i just did and im happy :)